You must be over 21 to attend parties at The Meeting Place.
While the staff does their best to enforce these few simple rules, this is your club too and the staff can't be everywhere. If you see someone breaking a rule or you personally have a problem, let one of us know so we can handle it quickly.
1. No means NO! This applies to either gender at any point in any situation. If you are feeling uncomfortable in any situation, a no thank you should be sufficient. You should ask permission before touching anyone. This also means if someone is sleeping you leave them alone.
2. No illegal drugs are to be brought on the premises, this includes the parking lot, if you are caught, you will be asked to leave and not return.
3. No prostitution allowed, if your caught you will also be asked to leave and not return.
4. You must present your membership card at the door every time you come for a party. Not having your membership card will result in you having to purchase a new membership at the full membership rate. Your Membership card is your receipt that your membership fees are paid.
5. No cameras of any kind including camera phones, video or recording equipment permitted in the building, please leave them in the car. We allow you to leave the building and come back in if necessary to check a phone, so make sure all camera phones stay in your car.
6. No smoking, eating, drinking or street clothes allowed upstairs or the hot tub area. This is for the safety and comfort of all TMP guests.
7. No cigars, scented cigarettes, or pipe smoking of any kind in the club, if you wish to smoke those please step outside on the back deck.
8. No drunk and obnoxious behavior will be tolerated, if you need to be drunk in order to feel comfortable, our parties aren't for you. Excessive drinking and becoming obnoxious will get you asked to go to sleep, you will also be asked not to return for another party.
Breaking the rules will either get you a warning or you will be asked to leave. This is up to the judgment of the staff. Continuous disregard for the rules will terminate your membership for good. If you are asked to leave or banned from the club, no refunds on membership or party fees will be given. If you are having a problem with anyone at the club at any time please see a staff member (all of the staff wears clear plastic name badges that identify them as staff), we'd be more than happy to help in any situation. If you don't tell someone there is a problem we can't help correct it.
Some other common sense rules and facts: Don't take someone else alcohol, only drink what you bring.
Do respect other's personal space. Don't crowd anyone who is upstairs playing.
Do not discuss the club, it's events or it's members outside of the club. You should also not give out the location to anyone. What happens at TMP stays at TMP.
We do allow everyone to spend the night at no extra charge, but be respectful of one another, some people stay up later than others and some play all night long. If you want to sleep use one of the single rooms and leave the bigger rooms for those who want to play into the night. Rooms like the loft, the bunk bed room and the twister room would be the worst places to choose to go to bed early. These rooms see activity throughout the night, and after all this is a swing club and noisy sex does take place, we know sometimes it's hard to sleep for some people with the noises, but really that's what the club is there for. Complaining about others having sex late into the night, really will get you no where, this is the purpose of the club and you might just want to find another room to sleep in if it's too noisy where you are.
TIP: Guys (married and single) be careful about following women around, this will not get you anywhere with them, most women will look at you as creepy or a stalker type. Instead take some time to get to know them downstairs before following them around upstairs. We want everyone to be as comfortable as possible at TMP, and sometimes this type of behavior will make people feel uncomfortable, especially new people, so watch for signs that maybe someone is uncomfortable that your watching them and if so move along, there are plenty of other people to look in on.