Single females are always allowed to attend TMP Parties. The cost for a single female membership is $60 a year payable in 4 payments of $15, or if you pay it all at once we will give you a discount of $10. Parties are free except for Special Occasions and Holiday weekends, then there is a small charge to cover expenses. Those prices will be posted with Holiday party information. See the Upcoming events page for information. Single Females only need call the club for directions.
Single Males read everything here and follow instructions completely, we've had a lot of you who aren't following the instructions and that is enough to make us think you won't follow the club rules and not want to even give you a chance.
Single males are only allowed to attend TMP events after they have completed our screening questionnaire, and then attended a personal interview with the staff on a Saturday afternoon. This is Saturdays only, do not write and ask us for another day it won't be done. Everything for single males prior to becoming club members will be handled through e-mail DO NOT CALL THE CLUB unless you've been told to do so for directions.
Once approved by the staff, single males can choose to join the club. Click the link at the bottom of this page to be taken directly to the questionnaire.
Single males pay the full membership like a couple of $60 (if using payments) as well as the couples cost for parties. (see Membership and Fees) New single males, we ask that you pay your full years membership of $50 at the time of your interview. You may use payments for renewal as it comes due.
Once your a member, all single males MUST call the club before coming to any event to make a reservation. We do limit the number of single males per evening based on the amount of couples and single females. If you are told no for a particular night, please try again we just had too many single males already when you called. If you come and have not called you will not be allowed to stay.
Please remember this is a swingers club, not a whore house, do not come to the club expecting sex, there is no sure thing. This is a place to meet people and mingle, sex is just a bonus.
While you are more than welcome to talk to and introduce yourself to others, never touch another person without their permission. Don't assume also because a couple(s) is having sex that you can just join in, you must be invited to participate or at the very least ask permission to join in, if you haven't been invited keep your distance and leave the couple(s) alone. This is common courtesy and should be followed by all club members.
Don't be a stalker either, remember many of the couples at the club are new and may be afraid to tell you they prefer not to have you even watch, the respectful thing to do is limit the time you watch anyone and don't follow the ladies around. Many couples enjoy being watched, some are there just for that reason, but unless you know that ahead of time you may be causing them more discomfort that you might think. You'll have a much better chance in getting together with a couple if you sit and talk with them downstairs before following them around upstairs. I can assure you the majority of women will find it creepy for a guy to follow her around all night, this is not the way to get a womans attention. Don't ignore the partner either if the woman has a partner, it's just rude and will generally get you no where.
Single males only get 1 chance, if you break the rules, don't act like a gentleman, or become a problem in anyway, you will be asked to leave and never return. We have many single men who would love to attend our parties, trouble makers are not needed. If you can't follow the instructions to apply for membership, please don't waste our time, we will only turn you down.
Husbands that want to attend as a single, you must also call the club to make sure we don't already have too many, and we must speak with your wife and make sure it is ok with her that you come alone. Do not show up with a membership card with both of your names and she is not with you if we have not spoken with both of you first, we will turn you away at the door.